The Ex man (no wolverine)

You finally get over him and are moving on to start dating. You where with him for like 2 to 4 yrs quite a while. The moment you start dating is like a radar they pick up that they might lose you forever. He probably ain't changed at all but to him you are still his PUM PUM. So the new guy you have been on a few dates with he treats you correctly. He makes you feel special and makes you feel wanted again. But like an idiot the ex man picks up on the happiness radar and starts phoning you again asking for a second (10th) chance. He starts reminding you of the past and those special moments you had for some it was the trips abroad and holidays for other girls it was trips to KFC. Life is not fair such is life. You start to listen to your Ex and fall into the delusion. Its all good for 2 weeks then he gets rid of you again. You now feel like crap and try to holla at Mr Nice Guy aka Eugene. Who took you out bought you flowers surprised you with spontaneous lunch dates at work. But he now knows he has been mugged off so he does not respond. Your next tweet or facebook update goes like this

"Why do men play games?"

You now feel hurt because Ex got rid of you for his jumpoff and Nice Guy Eugene does not want to hear it no more.

Why do women fall for this trap?

Dating a woman who is still infatuated with her ex a year or 2 after the break is tough. You need an extra level of patience. Like super saiyan patient because subconsciously she is comparing you to him most of the time in certain habits. If she say he used to do that and that ladies never compare the future to the ex bad mistake best to keep it in your head. Some guys I know it is a thrill to have their ex around. It is like she was a general and got demoted to a cadet. Worst thing now he is getting exactly what he wants when he wants because she lingers on to false hope. She had the dream already about their three sons Godwin, Godfrey and Godson. The picket fence and the garden. She wants him to harvest her womb. But he now sees it like this why commit while he can have you and play the field as well. To her friends she say's we are working things out. To his guys he say's I am just still fucking her I go round get food when I am hungry.

Ladies before you dismiss Eugene think you don't want to be the woman approaching 40 putting on her blackberry update/facebook status or twitter at night cold and alone need company. That is a strong display of the thirst. So listen to Capo and give Eugene a try. Everyone you meet in life is for a reason.

The Weeknd - What You Need

Eugene's song to you lol

Capotron